Wednesday, November 12, 2025

Always Faithful

 Always Faithful

2 Timothy 2:1-16[1]

One of the challenges of living in these days of turmoil and strife is that it can leave you wondering on whom you can depend. The polarization we are all feeling divides churches, friends, families, and even marriages. It can make you uncertain about whom you can trust, or even with whom you can even discuss your concerns. That’s on top of the normal challenges we have with our relationships and our commitments. Even in the best of times, employees may find their years of loyalty to their companies rewarded with a pink slip. Friends have disagreements that turn into ruptures that turn into years of estrangement. Couples that pledge “til death do us part” find themselves going their separate ways. Relationships are always complicated, and because we’re human it’s always difficult to know on whom you can depend. It’s even more so in these trying times.

I would say that all of this is particularly challenging when you add betrayal to the mix. I don’t know about you, but I personally find betrayal something most difficult to forgive. I’ve learned over the years to forgive a lot. But forgiving a perceived betrayal of trust can be difficult. Most of us have some experience with this unfortunate part of human life. The truth of the matter is that people simply let us down sometimes. They very likely mean well, but when push comes to shove, they can disappoint us in the most disheartening of ways. Of course, since we’re “people” too, that applies to us as well. Recognizing that about myself helps me to forgive others. And as we all know, forgiving someone is something we do as much for ourselves as we do for one who we think has wronged us. But betrayal remains a challenge. It can take a long time, maybe years, maybe even decades, to forgive a perceived betrayal of trust. Truth be told, some of us never get there.

If you pay close attention to the story of the people who claim to trust and obey God, you find that we have betrayed God’s trust repeatedly. That’s the theme of the history books in the Bible: there is a cycle of betrayal, the subjugation of the people by a hostile enemy, their repentance and restoration, followed by further betrayal. It’s one of the major plots in the story of the people of Israel in that part of the Hebrew Bible. They continually betrayed God’s trust, and though they suffered consequences for it, he restored them every time. I think it’s important to recognize that even when they may have had to experience the consequences of their actions, in the end God always restored them. In fact, I would say that God was supporting them with his faithful love even and especially in the midst of those consequences. They may have abandoned God, but God never abandoned them. The truly remarkable feature of this story is the way that God remains true to himself by remaining faithful to love and care for his people, throughout all time and change, and regardless of our failures.

Our lesson from 2 Timothy for today addresses this issue in something of a “backhanded” way. There we find an interesting “litany.” It is one of the “sure” or “faithful” sayings that are found throughout 1 and 2 Timothy. The first part is fairly clear: “If we have died with him, we will also live with him; if we endure, we will also reign with him” (2 Tim. 2:11-12). This is a theme that St. Paul was fond of: our inclusion in the body of Christ means that we share in his death and resurrection. The purpose of this, as he says elsewhere, is “so that, just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, so we too might walk in newness of life” (Rom. 6:4). That part is fairly clear.

It’s the second part of the litany that’s troubling: “if we deny him, he will also deny us; if we are faithless, he remains faithful—for he cannot deny himself” (2 Tim. 2:13). On the surface, that doesn’t sound like good news. In fact, it sounds positively menacing. We’re used to hearing about the good news of salvation by God’s grace alone as a gift of his unconditional love. But this seems to introduce some conditions for actually achieving salvation. That impression is only reinforced by remembering that Jesus himself said, “Those who are ashamed of me and of my words in this adulterous and sinful generation, of them the Son of Man will also be ashamed when he comes in the glory of his Father with the holy angels” (Mk. 8:38).

It sounds like we’re back to having to earn God’s love and trying to do enough good to deserve salvation! There is, of course, another way of looking at this strange litany. If we look at it from the perspective of the way God has dealt with people for generations, we could see it as a promise. From that point of view, it could mean that even when we are at times “faithless” and betray God’s trust, he remains faithful to us. Even when we go astray, even when that leads to  consequences in the short run, through it all God always continues to love us and offer us grace and mercy. That would seem to make more sense in the light of the consistent witness of the Scriptures. The most fundamental affirmation of the Bible is that God remains faithful to us, no matter what. Always has been and always will be.

But there’s still that part about denying and being denied. Would Jesus really deny us if we happened to not perfectly live up to our commitment to follow him and to bear witness to him? Does God really reject us if we have times in our lives when we fall short and are “faithless”? That seems to be the implication here. And many in the history of the church have understood it that way: they think it means that if we fall short or lose heart, God will remain true to himself by rejecting us! In fact, throughout history, when Christians have faced persecution, church leaders have debated whether someone could be forgiven for denying their faith in Jesus in the face of imminent death. Some thought you could be forgiven once, but no more. Many have taken a harder stance and said even once is too much![2]

Again, I would argue that interpretation doesn’t do justice to the way God actually deals with his fallible and wayward people in Scripture. Whatever “denying” and being “denied” means in this context, it has to take into account the fact that Peter specifically “denied” Jesus three times, and yet he was not “denied” but restored!  Perhaps that’s the point—even if we fall short the way Peter did, God’s faithfulness provides a way back for us, ultimately and finally, if not immediately as in Peter’s case. Whatever the “denying” that leads to being “denied” means, it has to be something more than just human weakness. It must be a final and definitive rejection of God’s grace and mercy and love, not simply a failure of nerve.[3] I think that applies to Jesus’ warning as well as our lesson from 2 Timothy.

The Bible bears witness time and again to the promise that, even if we are faithless, God remains faithful to his love, mercy, and grace toward us, which are unconditional, unqualified, unlimited, and irrevocable.[4] In light of our experience with betrayal, it may be hard for us to wrap our heads around this promise. How can God respond to our betraying him with such love, mercy, and grace? We don’t readily respond to betrayal by offering even forgiveness, let alone unconditional love. But as the Scriptures remind us, our way is not God’s way. God’s way is to send his son to die for those who are at odds with him, effecting reconciliation once and for all. God’s way is to remain faithful to us, even when we can at times fall short. God’s way is to restore us when we stumble and fall. When we wonder on whom we can depend in these trying times, I would say we can always depend on God, because throughout time and change, throughout all of history, God has demonstrated that he is always faithful to us!



[1] © 2025 Alan Brehm. A sermon delivered by Rev. Alan Brehm PhD on 10/12/2025 for Hickman Presbyterian Church, Hickman, NE.

[2] See, notably, John Calvin, Commentary on the Epistles to Timothy, Titus, and Philemon, 218-19: “he threatens that they who, through the dread of persecution, leave off the confession of his name, have no part or lot with Christ. … Hence it is evident, that all who deny Christ are disowned by him.”

[3] Cf. J. D. G. Dunn, “The First and Second Letters to Timothy and the Letter to Titus,” New Interpreter’s Bible XI:844.

[4] See Karl Barth, Church Dogmatics 2.1:510, where he describes “God’s action in relation to the apostasy of the creature” as one of grace and reconciliation, and in this God is supremely true to himself and his purposes.

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