Tuesday, May 24, 2022

Never Abandoned

Never Abandoned

John 14:15-29[1]

We live in a world that is more interconnected than ever before in history, and yet those who study our life in this world tell us that loneliness has become an epidemic. We can know what’s happening on the other side of the world instantly, and yet we have no idea what’s going on in the lives of our friends and neighbors. There is so much about the way our society functions that seems to isolate us from one another. Our superficial “connections” on social media only make matters worse. When we see the pictures our Facebook “friends” post of their “perfect” families, it can leave us feeling left out and abandoned.

One of the challenges we have with all this is that we all have expectations about how we thought our life was going to go. And when that doesn’t happen, we have a hard time letting those expectations go and finding the good things in our lives just the way they are here and now. Another challenge is that what we tell ourselves about our lives makes a huge difference in how we experience it. When we tell ourselves enough times that we’re a square peg trying to fit into a round hole and just never quite fitting in, we’re going to believe it. And what we believe about our lives tends to wind up being our “truth.” When we tell ourselves we’re left out and abandoned, we’re going to feel lonely.

This relates to our Gospel lesson for today because Jesus was preparing his disciples for the fact that very soon he was no longer going to be with them, at least in the physical sense of the word. He knew that his “hour” was at hand, and that he would be fulfilling the will of his Father that he “lay down his life” for his friends, and for us all. This whole section of John’s Gospel addresses that. From chapter to 13 to chapter 17, Jesus was preparing them for the crisis they would be facing as he went through the cross, the resurrection, and his ascension to the right hand of the Father.

Just a quick overview of their dialogues with Jesus in these chapters makes it clear that the disciples were confused by what Jesus was telling them. They expected the Messiah to come and take his place on David’s throne, not die on a cross and return to the Father who had sent him. More than that, his talk of “going” where they could not follow troubled them. We see that in Peter’s interaction with Jesus, asking why he couldn’t follow him (Jn 13:37). We see it in Thomas’ question, “Lord, we do not know where you are going, how can we know the way?” (Jn 14:5). And we see it when “some of his disciples” wondered among themselves, “What does he mean by saying to us, ‘A little while, and you will no longer see me,’ … and ‘I am going to the Father’?” (Jn 16:17).

In response to their uneasiness about all of this, Jesus sought to reassure them that they would not be left to carry on alone. In the first place, he told them that “Those who love me will keep my word, and my Father will love them, and we will come to them and make our home with them” (Jn 14:23). This probably sounds strange to our ears, because we’re used to St. Paul telling us that we’re saved by faith, not by what we do. But in John’s Gospel, true faith is defined as “loving” Jesus by “keeping his word.” It’s a matter of following Jesus’ example of loving the Father and fulfilling the Father’s will for his life. In John’s Gospel, those who respond to Jesus in faith will also follow his pattern of carrying out God’s purpose in their lives.

We shouldn’t get hung up on this and miss out on the promise here: Jesus promises his disciples that “my Father will love them, and we will come to them and make our home with them” (Jn 14:23). This is one of the major themes in John’s Gospel. Those who “love” Jesus will follow his example of loving obedience to the Father. They will “keep his word,” not in order to be loved, but because they have encountered the love of Christ. And Jesus promises that those who follow his example of loving God by obeying him will be enfolded into the relationship of love that Jesus and the Father share. Far from being abandoned, Jesus’ departure makes it possible for them to share the same relationship with God that Jesus did!

Jesus also promised his disciples that they would not be left abandoned because the Father would send them the Holy Spirit, who is called the “Advocate” here (Jn 14:26). I think perhaps a better translation would be “Helper” or “Encourager.” Jesus promises that the Spirit would “remind” them of all that he had taught them. Later, Jesus says that the Spirit would “guide” them into “all truth” (Jn 16:13). Again, I think the point of this is to assure the disciples that Jesus’ departure would not mean that they were abandoned and left on their own to carry on. Rather the Spirit would be right there with them, every step of the way, encouraging them and empowering them to remain faithful and true.

I believe these promises also hold a great deal of assurance for us. No matter how lonely we may feel, no matter how much we may think we are “misfits,” we are not left alone in our efforts to follow Christ and to carry out his work in our world. Just like Jesus’ first disciples, we too share in the relationship of love that Jesus and the Father have shared for all eternity. And no less than those first disciples, we too have the constant presence of the Spirit to guide us, to encourage us, and to empower us in our efforts to serve Christ. No matter how we may feel, we are never abandoned.



[1] © 2022 Alan Brehm. A sermon delivered by Rev. Alan Brehm Ph. D. on 5/22/2022 for Hickman Presbyterian Church, Hickman, NE.

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