Monday, April 20, 2020

Stubborn


Stubborn
Psalm 95[1]
  As some of you know all too well, I can be stubborn at times. I’d like to say it’s a side effect of having a Ph. D., but if I’m honest, I’d have to admit that my stubborn streak goes way back. All the way back! When I was in High School, I got the “foot-in-the-mouth” award, because I used to argue with the Math teacher when I couldn’t see the logic of an equation. But my stubbornness goes back even farther than that! I guess the one comfort I can take in my hard-headed condition is that I think I’m not alone in that predicament. Most of us at some time or another are convinced that we know what’s best, and when we do, we can be pretty stubborn about changing our minds.
  One of the essential disciplines in the Christian faith is repentance. In order to repent, we have to be willing to let go our stubborn insistence that we are right, or that we are “in the right.” We have to be willing to admit that we have been wrong, that we have been “in the wrong,” and that we have done wrong. This kind of repentance is at the heart of observing the season of Lent. It is a time for us to examine our lives with our eyes wide open so that we can see where we have strayed in our faith journey. The purpose of repentance is not just to “feel sorry” for what we have done, but rather to make up our minds that we are going to change. That takes humility, rather than stubbornness.
  One of the themes that gets repeated over and over in the story of Israel’s people is that they were stubborn. The prophets continually rebuked them for being “stiff-necked” in their willful disobedience to God and in continually going their own way. The prophets repeatedly called the people to humble themselves and return to God. It seems to me that in order to do that, you have to repent, let go your stubborn insistence on going your own way, admit that you’re going the wrong way, and open your heart to what God is trying to do in your life.
  The Psalmist was reflecting on this aspect of Israel’s experience in our lesson for today. He was particularly talking about the wilderness wanderings, when the people complained seemingly non-stop about Moses and about God. They didn’t like being in the wilderness, and they made that clear every chance they got! They weren’t happy with the way things were going in their lives, and they rarely missed a chance to blame God, or Moses, or both.  Unfortunately, it would seem that it never even occurred to them that the root of their bitterness was within themselves, not in someone else. They simply quarreled with Moses and “tested” God (Exod. 17:2, 3). The question at the center of their quarrel was significant: “Is the Lord among us or not?" (Exod. 17:7).  
  I would offer the suggestion that they were not the first, and certainly not the last, to “test” God.  The Psalmist defines it as demanding that God prove himself to be trustworthy (Ps. 95:9). Ironically, there are numerous stories where individuals asked God for a sign or for an answer using various “tests.” But it would seem that there’s a difference between trying to discern our direction and demanding that God give us assurances that we will get out of life whatever it is that we want. One of the problems with that approach to faith is that you can never get enough proof. You always need one more test to be sure you can “really” trust God.
  The Psalmist says that the people wandering in the wilderness responded to God in this way because they were stubborn. He says that they had “hardened” their hearts (Ps. 95:8). They had closed themselves off in such a way that faith was essentially impossible. And so the Psalmist, speaking to later generations, warns them (and us) to avoid this kind of stubbornness. How then do we follow this warning? Well, it seems to me that we start where the Psalmist does. He calls to all those who would hear, saying “O come, let us worship and bow down, let us kneel before the LORD, our Maker!  For he is our God, and we are the people of his pasture, and the sheep of his hand” (Ps. 95:6-7). The place where we begin to open our hearts so that we may “listen to his voice” (Ps. 95:7) is where we humble ourselves enough to kneel before our Maker.  
  That kind of humility doesn’t come easily for those of us who have been schooled in a world where competition is the name of the game. And yet, over and over, the Scriptures call us to soften our stubborn hearts so that we can open them to the life-giving presence of God. And over and over, the way the Scriptures instruct us to begin is by humbling ourselves. We have to humble ourselves to recognize that we were “weak” and “ungodly” when Christ died for us (Rom. 5:6). It took humility for St. Paul to bow before Jesus and call the one he had opposed “Lord”! And it takes humility for us to open our hearts to God.
  Humility is difficult for most of us. But it truly is the first step toward repenting of stubbornness. When we can let down some of our defenses, and soften our hearts, then maybe we can open ourselves enough to listen, really listen to God’s voice. That’s what it takes for us to experience the change Jesus called being “born anew.” That’s what it takes for us to experience the new life of the Spirit that God wants to give us. The call to faith is a call to humility, a call to soften our hearts and open them up enough to receive the grace and the love that God wants to pour into us in such quantity that it becomes like “a spring of water gushing up to eternal life” (Jn. 4:14).


[1] ©2020 Alan Brehm. A sermon delivered by Rev. Dr. Alan Brehm on 3/15/2020 at Hickman Presbyterian Church, Hickman, NE.

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