The Promise of Love
Luke 1:39-55[1]
Most of us know the elation we feel over the
promise of love. When we meet someone we think might be a good partner for us,
the hope and the dream of a loving relationship is one that can make our heart
sing. It may even make us sing out loud! But at the same time, many of us know
the heartbreak that happens when the promise of love isn’t fulfilled. Not every
relationship works out, mainly because we’re all broken in some way. It’s
painful when that happens. But more than that, when our hope for love is
shattered, it may make it hard for us to trust in the promise of love at all. Whether
it’s love from our family and friends, or even love from God, when our hearts
are broken, it can leave us wondering if we can trust the promise of love at
all.
As I’ve mentioned before, one of the main
reasons why Jesus came was to demonstrate God’s love for us. His birth, the way
he lived his life, and his death on the cross were all a magnificent
demonstration of the biblical truth that God has loved us from before the
foundation of the world, and that God will continue to love us through all the
ages, forever and forever. I think we need to hear that, because many of us
struggle with feeling that we are loved. Especially at this time of the year,
we may feel unloved and empty. But we celebrate the birth of Jesus at this time
of year as the birth of the one who came to fulfill the promise of God’s love,
for us and for all people.
In our lesson from Luke’s Gospel for today, we
hear the story of Mary and Elizabeth. Both of them were in vulnerable
positions. Mary was a peasant girl from a small backwater town in the middle of
nowhere. She had no wealth, no position, nothing to count on but God. Mary
calls herself God’s “lowly servant girl” (Lk 1:48, NLT). I’m sure she
knew what it was to feel “lowly” simply because of her status in life: she was
a young woman in a world where women had no rights. She was one of the common
people, with no power or position in Jewish society. Even at a young age, I
have to think she may have wondered what the meaning of her life might be. She
had good reason to be “confused” and even afraid when the angel Gabriel told
her about the special task God had chosen her to carry out.
That task was the one of being chosen by God
to give birth to the boy who would grow up to be the man who would fulfill
God’s promise of love for her people, along with all the peoples of the world! But
Mary’s pregnancy put her in a dangerous situation. She could have easily been
suspected of doing something that the people of her village would have
considered offensive enough to have her stoned to death! She also had to trust
in God’s love to protect her as she took on this dangerous task. That’s what
makes it so amazing that despite her fear and confusion, she had the faith in
response to Gabriel’s assurance that “no word from God will ever fail,” to answer,
“I am the Lord’s servant; May your word to me be fulfilled” (Lk 1:37-38, NIV).
She trusted God to fulfill his promise of love.
So it is that Elizabeth blessed Mary because
of her faith “that the Lord would do what he said” (Lk 1:45, NLT).
Elizabeth had a much different position in Jewish society as the wife of the
priest Zechariah. But as a woman who had passed the age of childbearing without
having any children, she lived with a unique kind of vulnerability herself.
Although it was unfair, the “blame” for not bearing children was heaped on the
women of that day. More than that, she faced a very uncertain future without
children to support her in her old age. And yet, there she was, filled with joy
over her own child, and not only recognizing Mary’s great faith, but blessing
her for it. I think at that moment Elizabeth’s affirmation was probably just
what Mary needed!
Luke tells us that Mary burst into a song of
praise to God. She praised God for being merciful “from generation to
generation,” in other words, always and forever (Lk 1:50). She praised God for
“lifting up the lowly” and “filling the hungry with good things” (Lk 1:52-53).
She was not only thinking about the wonderful thing God was doing through her,
but also the joy that had surprised Elizabeth. There they were, two women who
were by all external measures incredibly vulnerable, celebrating the goodness
and mercy that God had shown them both. They were celebrating God’s fulfillment
of his promise of love.
But more than that, Mary had the faith and
insight to recognize that what was happening through her was meant to benefit
her people, and all the peoples of the world. She said that what was happening
was a matter of God keeping the promise he made to Abraham. You may recall that
promise: God would give to Abraham and Sarah so many descendants that they
would become a great nation (Gen 12:2). He made that promise because of his
love for Abraham and Sarah. But the purpose of his blessing to Abraham and Sarah
was that “in you all the families of the earth will be blessed” (Gen 12:3). Just
like Mary, God chose Abraham and Sarah to fulfill his promise of love for all
people. And Mary’s song celebrated the faith that God was doing just as he
promised in and through her.
I think our Gospel lesson is a good reminder
that God delights in accomplishing his work even and especially when it seems
like it may be impossible. That was Mary’s initial reaction: “how can this be?”
And Gabriel’s response was “nothing is impossible for God”! It can be hard for
us to wrap our head around the idea that God came into this world as a baby
born of Mary. She was someone who had no rights, no power, no position or
privilege. And choosing to say yes to God’s purpose for her life put her very
life in danger. But God had chosen her to bear a son who would fulfill his
promise of love for all people.
I think there’s a lesson in this story for all
of us. We all face times in our lives when the task that is set before us may
seem impossible. We may struggle to even trust that God loves us enough to see
us through. We may feel vulnerable and afraid. But, like Mary, we can remember
that through all of what we may experience in this life, both the “good” and
the “not so good,” God is always working in and through our lives to fulfill
his promise of love. God fulfills his promise through our willingness to say
with Mary, “I am the Lord’s servant; May your word to me be fulfilled.” Saying
that means we’re willing to trust God to do what may seem impossible to us. It
means that we’re willing to take the risk of making ourselves vulnerable for
God to fulfill his promise of love not only for us, but also for all the people
in our lives, and for all the people of this world.
[1] ©
2024 Alan Brehm. A sermon delivered by Rev. Alan Brehm PhD on 12/22/2024 for
Hickman Presbyterian Church, Hickman, NE.